Welcome to You Know Where

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YKW - You Know Where - YKW

YKW is open every Saturday night from 9pm - 3am. Our parties are for couples, females, and up to five escorted single men, single men by themselves are not allowed. We are the only on-premise club in eastern North Carolina. Absolutely NO pressure, no one is required to do anything that they do not wish to do. Great for new couples, soft swingers and experienced alike. No membership fees or dues. Reservations suggested but not required. We are the Carolina's #1 Lifestyle Party!!!

YKW was established in March 2005 to serve as an "on premises" adult social party for people with sexually open attitudes and relationships. The purpose of our parties is to provide a place that is more than a traditional "swing club". It is an adult social party, a place where people are free to explore their sexuality in a fun, but safe social setting without pressure.

The atmosphere is very casual, friendly and relaxed. We have at least one themed party every month that offers the opportunity to come dressed based on the evening's theme, however you are not required to dress for that theme if you do not wish. At YKW there is no dress code so you have the freedom to wear anything that you like.

YKW is many different things to many different people, however it is not for everyone. Your partner and relationship must be the highest priority in your involvement at YKW. Constant, effective communication is essential to your success. We recommend that couples make joint decisions without pressure or persuasion. Any suggestions of coercion will not be tolerated.

We are a member only club and not open to the general public, anyone that wishes to be a member must sign a membership and agreement form in order to be admitted to our club. There is no charge for membership, we do not ask for any personal information other than your name, and all information is kept securely locked away in a separate location from the club in a different city and address than the club. The membership and agreement form that you sign states that you understand this is a private adult party and that you are not offended by nudity or adult situations. It also states that if you are a member of the media or law enforcement, that you are at our club on your own free will and not here to gather anyone's personal information or make anyone's personal information/identity known to the general public.

We do not sell or give out any of your information to anyone for any reason; we value your privacy as we do our own.

We host no pressure lifestyle parties for anyone, whether experienced, in between, or for those just curious and would like more information before deciding if this is the lifestyle for them. The links provided on the menu bar above will provide you with complete details about our events.

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Again, if you have any questions or concerns, please use the contact link above to email, call, or write us. All information provided is strictly confidential. We do not sell, share or give your personal information to anyone under any circumstances. We value your privacy as we do our own.