OPENING HOURS

Every Saturday:

Couples & Ladies Only

VIP Members: 8pm - 3am

Basic Members: 9pm - 3am

1st Friday of Every Month: Couples, Ladies, & Gentlemen

All Members: 9pm - 2am

3rd Friday of Every Month:

Couples, Ladies, & Gentlemen

All Members: 9pm - 2am

YKW ATTENDANCE​

Saturday Averages:

220 - 260 People

30 - 40 First time couples

10 - 15 Single Ladies

Friday Averages:

210 - 250 People

25 - 35 First time couples

15 - 20 Single Ladies

EVENTS​ FOR AUGUST

Aug  1 - Canceled

Aug  7 - Freaky Friday

Aug  8 - Bra Party
Aug 15 - 7th Annual Swinger Awards

Aug 21 - Freaky Friday

Aug 22 - Daisy Dukes Party

Aug 29 - Boxer Party

 

Full Year Calendar Click Here

EVENTS​ FOR SEPTEMBER

Sept  4 - Freaky Friday
Sept  5 - Back to School Party

Sept 12 - Short Skirt Night

Sept 18 - Freaky Friday

Sept 19 - Scavenger Hunt Theme Party

Sept 26 - Dirty Disney Party

Full Year Calendar Click Here

YKW is still currently closed due to Covid19

 

The Governor of NC still has NC in phase two until Sept 11 which means clubs like ours are not legally allowed to be open. We know it is frustrating, as we would love to be open now as well, but we believe that protecting our members private life and not bringing negative attention to our club or its members is more important than trying to have a party and risk people’s livelihood.  

He will have another press conference the week before Sept 11 to say if we will be allowed to reopen our type of business along with many other businesses on Sept 11. We hope that we will be able to reopen on Sept 11 but for now it is a waiting game. As soon as we find out anything, we will post this information.

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YKW - You Know Where - YKW

YKW is North Carolina's first fully licensed and largest swingers club located in Fayetteville North Carolina. Our parties are held in our own 12,000 sq ft private member only "lifestyle" club, not in a house or hotel.  At YKW you have the freedom to have fun in complete privacy. We are the first and only fully licensed, legal and insured lifestyle club in North Carolina. We have all of our permits and are a fully legal club. 

Thank you for visiting our web site, we hope that we can provide you with the information that you need.  However, if you do need further assistance please feel free to 
e-mail us and ask any questions or concerns that you may have. 

YKW is a private members only social club that is open every Saturday night from 8pm - 3am for VIP members and 9pm - 3am for basic members. Our parties are for couples, females, and up to five escorted single men, single men by themselves are not allowed. YKW is a 12,000 sq ft private member only "lifestyle" club in Fayetteville North Carolina. Absolutely no pressure, no one is required to do anything that they do not wish to do. Great for new couples, soft swingers and experienced alike. We are the Carolina's #1 Lifestyle Party!!!

The atmosphere is very casual, friendly and relaxed. We have different theme parties every week that offers the opportunity to come dressed based on the evening's theme; however you are not required to dress for that theme if you do not wish. We also have at least one special themed party every month where we offer everyone a chance to win door prizes and birthday/anniversary lap dances for anyone that has a birthday or anniversary for that month.

YKW is many different things to many different people; however it is not for everyone. Your partner and relationship must be the highest priority in your involvement at YKW. Constant, effective communication is essential to your success. We recommend that couples make joint decisions without pressure or persuasion. Any suggestions of coercion will not be tolerated.

We are a private member only club and not open to the general public, anyone that wishes to be a member must sign a membership and agreement form in order to be admitted to our club and buy a membership. We do not ask for any personal information other than your name, and all information is kept securely locked away in a separate location from the club in a different city and address than the club. The membership and agreement form that you sign states that you understand this is a private adult party and that you are not offended by adult situations.  It also states that if you are a member of the media or law enforcement, that you are at our club on your own free will and not here to gather anyone's personal information or make anyone's personal information/identity known to the general public. 

We host no pressure lifestyle parties for anyone, whether experienced, in between, or for those just curious and would like more information before deciding if this is the lifestyle for them. The links provided on the menu bar above will provide you with complete details about our events.

If you have any questions or concerns, please feel free to contact us.

All information provided is strictly confidential. We do not sell, share or give your personal information to anyone under any circumstances. We value your privacy as we do our own. 

© 2020 You Know Where LLC, YKW established March 5 2005